Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or...

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	Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of ... Mira Kirshenbaum Plume, 1997 - 304 pages average customer review:based on 99 reviews view larger image
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highly recommended

Everyone Should Read This Book

Last summer I found out my husband was having an affair with a woman I considered my best friend. We've been trying to put our marriage back together, but as you can imagine it has not been an easy process. I love my husband deeply despite the affair, and I know he loves me, but with all the pain and damage between us it's hard to know what to do.

Recently, it had all begun to seem hopeless. All we do is fight. My days became consumed with wondering if I'd be better off just ending the marriage now. Then this weekend I was in the bookstore and came across this book. I spent the entire weekend reading it. This book is so helpful! It showed me that despite our problems, my marriage is still too good to leave. Underneath all the pain we're inflicting on each other currently, our marriage is still alive. There is a solid foundation that, if we can tap into it, should be able to get us through this.

This book also identified for me IN CLEAR TERMS exactly where our problems are coming from! And it made it clear to me that if we do not fix these problems, then this marriage WILL be too bad to stay in. But for now, there is still hope.

This book has given me exactly what I needed. Now I'm not wasting so much time thinking about leaving, when I could be investing that energy in making the marriage better. And now I know what line to draw in the sand to tell myself how I'll know if and when to leave.

I can't believe this book isn't more famous! Everyone should read this book! I wish I'd read it BEFORE my marriage got to the point where my husband had an affair. We could have saved ourselves years of pain and therapy!

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Chilling Drama

Starting at page 1, I realized that the marriage (relationship) was dead but the patients are too blind to see it. What shall they do?
- Stay together and be unhappy
- Seek a fulfilling relationship with somebody else
- Create guilt to make the other partner feel morally obligated to stay
- Ignore the problems and stay together for the sake of the children (who are grown up and should have moved out of the house a long time ago)

This book makes it crystal clear that somebody must take the initiative to leave or live unhappily every after. Apparently, many people choose to be unhappily; probably why Efexor is a popular product. The author knows how to get to the point and keep your attention.

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Phenomenal Read! - A True Relationship Dianostic Analysis

For the sake of brevity, I will describe this book and it's impact in just a few sentences and with a limited set of adjectives.

How I describe this book:
Informative, enlightening, inspirational, candid, comprehensive, and extremely beneficial.

My take-away from the book:
This book is the single most comprehensive resource for making a decision when at the crossroad of a relationship. I have found better clarity through reading this book, working through the exercises, and cogitating the lessons learned from each section.

Not only does this book allow one to take an honest, laser-focus look at their partner but it also enables the reader to introspect and take a close look at themselves and the relationship as a whole. It provides the equivalent of a physician's pre-operative and post-operative patient workup.

Whenever in doubt, reach for this book and you will discover your best next steps. You will obtain the resolution and peace that is necessary to move forward. In addition to my faith, this book has been my guiding light. It is the "relationship North Star".

Enjoy and the best of luck to all. May you find the inspiration, clarity, and strength to live your best life.

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No more ambivalence

There are many reasons to consider leaving or staying in a relationship. If you want to take a serious look at what is happening in yours, read this book, work through the guidelines and use the tools presented. Being ambivalent about what you want to do is destructive to you, personally. This book gives you the ability to make a decision (one way or the other) that is based on your honest answers. Glad I bought the book, glad I worked through it (not once, but twice), and I would recommend this to anyone seeking clarity.

A Must Have if you are headed for divorce/marriage in shambles

My best friend from college is headed towards divorce - as a friend - you want to help her - but what do I know about being married and having five kids - zilch. My cousin is having marital problems and mentioned this book - she said it was great. I remembered it - and I sent it to her hoping it would shed some light on a very painful subject. I got a txt from her a mere few days later telling me SHE LOVES THE BOOK!!! She said it is so immensely helpful, which coincidentally mirrored my cousins sentiments - it really makes you weigh both sides.

So while I can't personally say I know this books value - two people that I love very much - on two different coasts - LOVE IT! Order it now!

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