After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful |...

After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful | Janis Abrahms Spring, Michael Spring | After the Affair

books:

After the Affair: ...

	After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful Janis Abrahms Spring, Michael Spring Harper Paperbacks, 1997 - 304 pages average customer review:based on 78 reviews view larger image
	for more information click here

highly recommended

Title says it all

This book was recommended to my husband and I, by a marraige counselor after I found out about his affair. It's unbiased and focuses on underlying reasons for unhappiness within a marraige and how to help mend it if possible. After 13 years of marraige, this book really taught my husband and I to effectively communicate OPENLY and honestly. I recommend this book to anyone going through the effects of an affair either for yourself or with your spouse. Actually Id recommend it to any couple to possibly stop an affair before it happens.

After the Affair

I read "After the Affair" about three weeks after discovering my husband had been having an affair for a year. It was helpful for me, because I thought the feelings I was feeling were abnormal. I didn't care for the term the "lover". I don't view the other woman as that. The book did help me come to terms with my husband's behavior. I do wish it had more information about the "lover" as Dr.Springer referred to them. (personality type)etc. I would recommend it. It is soft reading at a time that you may feel angry!!!

for more information click here

Great book even 9 months later

Even 9 months after learning of my husband's string of affairs - long term and one night stands - this book was a huge help for me. Our counselor was treating my husband for sexual addiction but not treating the severe depression I was slipping into. The book opened my eyes to some of the issues he was dealing with and put words to many of my deep feelings. Bottom line I realized the feelings I were having were normal and I wasn't out there alone! The book gave me hope. We are trying to rebuild our marriage - I was 10 days away from giving birth to our second son when I confronted his affairs. This book made me realize I wasn't a push over for wanting to try and build a family - that there was hope and there were steps to help us try. I am trying to find a counselor who can work with us in the same techniques found in the book. You'll see once you read the book - high cost and low cost actions - my one and only high cost for my husband - read the book! It would help him see what I am going through also and bring up some subjects that are hard to find a way to put into words. Not the one and only answer - it won't help you forget - but it will give you a starting point.

for more information click here

Got to get it